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Do you have sex at least in pairs and masturbate on your own? no! You can also masturbate together.
What is Masturbating Together?
Masturbating together is exactly what it sounds like: you and your partner masturbating at the same time. It can be a great way to get to know each other better and discover what you really like. Think of it as an exciting journey of discovery!
Why Should You Masturbate Together?
Why not? Masturbating together can have a lot of benefits. It can help you feel more connected to your partner, boost your sex life, and even help reduce stress. Plus, it's just plain fun!
Tips for Masturbating Together
Ready to get started? Here are some tips to get you started. First and foremost, communication is key.
Talk to your partner about what you like and what you don't like.
Second, take your time. This is not a race! And finally, don't forget to relax and have fun. This is a time to enjoy and explore, not stress.
We give you seven very good reasons why masturbating with your partner is such a good idea.
When you're too tired to go 'all the way'.
After a long day at work you are sometimes really too tired for a game of sex with your partner. Still, the pressure needs to be off the kettle. Of course you can do it yourself quickly in the shower. That's nice and functional, but let's be honest... it's not much fun, is it?
Why not just masturbate together? That is of course a lot better than having to use your own imagination during solo sex. As a bonus, your partner will also get their money's worth. And eye contact as you both climax at the same time... is a highlight in itself.
Find out what your partner really likes.
When you masturbate together, you see your partner doing things to themselves that you may never have thought of yourself. That gives enough new ideas for next time. If this is the first time that you share the sheets with each other, you will find out what the other person really likes by masturbating together.
Easier to cum
During sex with your partner, some feel pressure to always perform. It can then be difficult to reach a peak. Remarkably enough, that is never really a problem during solo sex. You know better than anyone what you really like, because you've probably done it thousands of times. Masturbating together is basically like solo sex, only with a partner.
Masturbating together is something else
Even when you masturbate together, it's just real sex. No, it's not penetration or oral sex. But if your bed repertoire always had to be limited to just those two, it would eventually get a bit boring, wouldn't it?
Of course you can vary with all kinds of different positions and that makes it less monotonous. But you know what really helps? Masturbate together! You don't know what you've been missing all this time until you do it once. Really!
You have no protection with you
Somehow you never have contraceptives with you when you need them. The next time the most attractive person ever when you go out, asks if you want to go home and you don't happen to have anything with you, that doesn't mean you can forget about sex. You can also masturbate together!
Masturbating together is also super exciting
When you masturbate together, it's like watching porn, but better. You can both show your adventurous and practical side. It's really exciting to see your partner busy with themselves. And it's also exciting to show your partner how you're doing with yourself. Masturbating together is therefore twice as exciting and a real win-win.
Is masturbating together normal?
Yes. Many couples do it as foreplay, for variety, or at times when sex isn't an option. It is a way to be intimate without the pressure to perform.
How do you start masturbating together?
Discuss it outside the bedroom first, so no one is caught off guard. Start side by side in dim light, look at each other, and tell each other what you like. A little water-based lubricant makes it more pleasant for both of you.
Can you also masturbate together remotely?
Certainly. You can see and hear each other via video calling, even if you are not in the same city. Agree beforehand on what you will and won't share and use a connection you trust.
What if I feel uncomfortable the first time?
That is perfectly normal. Agree that you can stop anytime, start under the covers or with the lights off, and build it up gradually. Toys from our collection for couples can help break the ice.
Sexy toys are of course allowed
Masturbating together is an accessible way to introduce sex toys into the bedroom. Using it is really exciting for you and your partner. The choice of sex toys for masturbating together is huge. Therefore, just see picking out fun toys as part of foreplay.
Did you know that there are sex toys with a remote control? That suddenly gives you or your partner control over the other person's pleasure. How about one vibrating egg with app, a cock ring with remote control or a remote controlled prostate vibrator? With that, 'masturbating together' suddenly has a completely different cover.
Frequently asked questions about masturbating together
Yes. Many couples do it as foreplay, for variety, or at times when sex isn't an option. It is a way to be intimate without the pressure to perform.
Discuss it outside the bedroom first, so no one is caught off guard. Start side by side with dimmed lights, look at each other, and tell each other what you like. A little water based lubricant makes it more pleasant for both of you.
Certainly. You can see and hear each other via video calling, even if you are not in the same city. Agree beforehand on what you will and won't share and use a connection you trust.
That is perfectly normal. Agree that you can stop anytime, start under the covers or with the lights off, and build it up gradually. Toys from our collection for couples can help break the ice.
