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7 Very good reasons to masturbate together
Jan
Do you have sex at least in pairs and masturbate on your own? no! You can also masturbate together.
What is Masturbating Together?
Masturbating together is exactly what it sounds like: you and your partner masturbating at the same time. It can be a great way to get to know each other better and discover what you really like. Think of it as an exciting journey of discovery!
Why Should You Masturbate Together?
Why not? Masturbating together can have a lot of benefits. It can help you feel more connected to your partner, boost your sex life, and even help reduce stress. Plus, it's just plain fun!
Tips for Masturbating Together
Ready to get started? Here are some tips to get you started. First and foremost, communication is key.
Talk to your partner about what you like and what you don't like.
Second, take your time. This is not a race! And finally, don't forget to relax and have fun. This is a time to enjoy and explore, not stress.
We give you seven very good reasons why masturbating with your partner is such a good idea.
When you're too tired to go 'all the way'.
After a long day at work you are sometimes really too tired for a game of sex with your partner. Still, the pressure needs to be off the kettle. Of course you can do it yourself quickly in the shower. That's nice and functional, but let's be honest... it's not much fun, is it?
Why not just masturbate together? That is of course a lot better than having to use your own imagination during solo sex. As a bonus, your partner will also get their money's worth. And eye contact as you both climax at the same time... is a highlight in itself.
Find out what your partner really likes.
When you masturbate together, you see your partner doing things to themselves that you may never have thought of yourself. That gives enough new ideas for next time. If this is the first time that you share the sheets with each other, you will find out what the other person really likes by masturbating together.
Easier to cum
During sex with your partner, some feel pressure to always perform. It can then be difficult to reach a peak. Remarkably enough, that is never really a problem during solo sex. You know better than anyone what you really like, because you've probably done it thousands of times. Masturbating together is basically like solo sex, only with a partner.
Masturbating together is something else
Even when you masturbate together, it's just real sex. No, it's not penetration or oral sex. But if your bed repertoire always had to be limited to just those two, it would eventually get a bit boring, wouldn't it?
Of course you can vary with all kinds of different positions and that makes it less monotonous. But you know what really helps? Masturbate together! You don't know what you've been missing all this time until you do it once. Really!
You have no protection with you
Somehow you never have contraceptives with you when you need them. The next time the most attractive person ever when you go out, asks if you want to go home and you don't happen to have anything with you, that doesn't mean you can forget about sex. You can also masturbate together!
Masturbating together is also super exciting
When you masturbate together, it's like watching porn, but better. You can both show your adventurous and practical side. It's really exciting to see your partner busy with themselves. And it's also exciting to show your partner how you're doing with yourself. Masturbating together is therefore twice as exciting and a real win-win.
Is masturbating together normal?
Yes, absolutely. Many couples do it, but it is rarely talked about. It is a natural way to be intimate with each other without the pressure that sometimes comes with sex. There is no right or wrong, as long as you are both on board and feel comfortable. For many people, it is actually one of the most honest forms of intimacy.
What are the benefits of masturbating together?
The biggest benefits: you discover what your partner really enjoys, there is no pressure to perform, and it can give your sex life a significant boost. It is also nice for practical reasons, for example when one of you is tired or when contraceptives are not at hand. Moreover, it fosters bonding, precisely because you show yourself in a vulnerable way.
How do you start the conversation with your partner about masturbating together?
Start lightly and without pressure. You don't have to make a big deal out of it. Something like "I read something recently and it made me curious" often works better than a formal question. Choose a relaxed moment, not in the middle of the bedroom. And if your partner needs to think first, give them space. Curiosity is not an obligation.
Can you masturbate together if you are living apart?
Yes, and for many couples, this is actually a godsend. With a video connection and a vibrating egg with app control your partner can encourage you from thousands of kilometers away. The same applies to a cock ring with remote control. It feels surprisingly connecting, as if you are there together, even if that is not physically possible for a moment.
Sexy toys are of course allowed
Masturbating together is an accessible way to introduce sex toys into the bedroom. Using it is really exciting for you and your partner. The choice of sex toys for masturbating together is huge. Therefore, just see picking out fun toys as part of foreplay.
Did you know that there are sex toys with a remote control? That suddenly gives you or your partner control over the other person's pleasure. How about one vibrating egg with app, a cock ring with remote control or a remote controlled prostate vibrator? With that, 'masturbating together' suddenly has a completely different cover.